Okay, so I ‘m not going to pretend I understood this book because, to be honest, I was totally lost for most of it even with peeking at a plot summary. At first I was so irritated with the random changes in setting, character and plot. But while I didn’t understand any of those things, I think I got the more basic ideas in the text. Not to mention the fact that, although I didn’t really understand what was going on, I still LOVED the way Russ wrote it and the way she used language. SO for this post I’m going to look at a few bits and pieces of the novel that I thought were really insightful or intriguing.
The first quotation I wanted to look at was this from page 100:
“If you are so foolhardy as to ask a Whileawayan child to ‘be a good girl’ and do something for you:
“What does running other people’s errands have to do with being a good girl?
Why can’t you run your own errands?
Are you crippled?”
This is something that still plays a part in society today. This quote really leads into the thinking that gender roles are constructed, women do not naturally want to play the role of the ‘good girl’ and be helpful and put themselves out their way for other people. It is something that is taught to you through childhood, like being told to be a ‘good girl’ and do this or that. I was taught that way and I feel it makes you want to be helpful even at your own expense.

The next quote is found on page 109, this is a section in which Jeannine is speaking and she is discussing marriage and love:
“If only (she thinks) he’ll come and show me to myself. I’ve been waiting for you so long. How much longer must I wait?”
So my first reaction to these lines were a flashback to the line from the show Sex and the City when one of the women is sitting in a restaurant upset saying something like “I’ve been dating since I was 13, Where is he?… My hair hurts”. While this idea that women must get married is not necessarily still the norm, women who choose to remain unmarried, or unattached to a man, earns them the name of slut or whore. But men, such as George Clooney for one (not that I dislike him but just for example) he goes through women like Kleenex and is called a bachelor. Hmm… sounds fair to me…..
Also this novel explores the idea that women are looking to find themselves through a man, that a man will make them a whole person, and that that is the only way to complete their lives.
The next quotation was taken from a section where it’s a conversation between a man and a women. She is taking the feminist outlook and he is expressing his patriarchal views:
He: But darling, why be irrational? It doesn’t matter that you can’t make money because I can make money. And after I’ve made it, I give it to you, because I love you. So you don’t have to make money. Aren’t you glad?
She: NO. Why can’t you stay home and take care of the baby? … Why should I be glad because I can’t earn a living?
He ( with dignity): This argument is becoming degraded and ridiculous. I will leave you alone until loneliness, dependence, and a consciousness that I am very much displeased once again turn you into the sweet girl I married. There is no use in arguing with a woman.
This quotation is just hilarious. While this is only a small part of the conversation it shows how Russ makes the male characters seem ridiculous and the female characters seem rational and intelligent. She then goes on and describes a perfect woman, who has like a hundred kids, cooks everything from scratch, holds an executive level job and still dresses up in a wig and “turns instanter into a Playboy dimwit” (151).
Intersting side bar: When you search “Perfect Woman” in google image search all you get is naked women. WOW, what a comment on society.
Okay one more quote page 94: 
She: If you play the game, it means you like me, doesn’t it?
He: Of course.
She: Then if it’s a game and you like me, you can stop playing. Please stop.
He: No.
She: Then I won’t play.
He: Bitch! You want to destroy me. I’ll show you.
(He plays Harder)
She: All right. I’m impressed.
He: You really are sweet and responsive after all. You’ve kept your femininity. You’re not one of those hysterical feminist bitches who wants to be a man and have a penis. You’re a woman.
She: Yes. (She kills herself)
So my boyfriend is becoming irritated with all of the quotations I am reading out loud because I find they sound sooo much funnier out loud. But I simply cannot stop myself. Russ makes the truth sound ridiculous and the more I re-read this book the more I enjoy it. But on the topic of truth, who doesn’t know at least one man who thinks like this? Many people today think feminist is a dirty word, bringing up images of women who do not shave. So my question is have we really progressed much since Russ wrote this novel in…(gimme a second here) 1975 or do women and men just pretend the things they say are jokes such as “Women shouldn’t drive cars” (a common joke I hear sometimes) but does it have some truth to it? What do men think about women’s rights today? Are they committed to equality?


P.s. While reading this imagine George Bush as the white haired man